You cannot look for love, you may want love but to actually exasperate yourself and look for it, is just not advisable! What if you find exactly what you are not looking for? You need to find your self first and love yourself and love will find you. Every human has a need for love and to be loved. Unfortunately it looks easier than done. It is just not possible to look for it, you can put yourself out there as available but you must carry on with life. If you have to totally alter your self, to please somebody else then you are only fooling your self. Love will find you if love needs to find you, in the mean time search for love with yourself. Love what you already have to love. Most times the desperate need to be loved, comes from a place where love never was. Love is indeed complex, Love has so many different faces!