When you blindly make choices and then everything starts to go badly wrong. You cry “oh God why me?” Why are all these bad things happening to me? I am a good person, I have a good heart…why me? Maybe it’s not God? But you? You made the choices remember? When your heart or even God was speaking to you, you chose not to listen. You followed your head, caring about what people would think first! That’s obviously not the answer, patience is indeed a virtue! You can’t blame your life choices on God. Yes God loves you and never forsakes you, but you must be in tune with God especially by actions. You can’t do things without acknowledging God. Especially when things are good for you, you have to give praise all the time. In hardships, you turn to God swiftly and soon forget when you are happy. God never sleeps, watches our very hearts, our next moves and he is the ultimate giver and taker. God should be in your heart, by actions, and by deed! In goodness and badness embrace God, listen to God not your head. If it doesn’t feel right, it probably isn’t right. Seek God first above everything else!