Tag Archives: strength

Flying solo…

I am free, well I feel free…mentally I have the power to set my mind free…

A lesson learned well after, you see in this very moment…I am faced with many actions by others, intended to disrupt me…but I have learned a few life lessons…

I am not allowing the emptiness of others drain my full cup…

It shouldn’t be a battle…it should just be easy! Easy as it is now, for me to be free…flying free and solo! 

I won’t join the bandwagon, I won’t stoop low….I am standing with my head up my darlingπŸ’ŸπŸ•Š

The wave at the moment…

I get this feeling at least once a month, feelings in different propotions. I get completely full, my mind overflows. I analsye this, and discern what I think relevant….but it all comes down to the most important, the power of the mind.

I am a thinker and a speaker, but only time has taught me that I can think whatever but can’t speak whatever.

I am on this life journey and the wave changes periodically. For the first time since I can recall, the period of my life finally feels good…

I am much more stronger, in my self and how I can truly be myself. The most I can and have done is to change the ways that didn’t favour my life…

I can honestly appreciate all that has been, praying constantly that I can also appreciate all that will be…

So my energy gets channeled according to my wave, so I can be in calmness and tranquility as this life throws me wherever it wants to.❀

A new dawn, a new day…

Yes and so it shall be…

I have natutally been feeling so good lately…

Got rid of something that wasn’t good for me…and now I feel amazing!

I have been home, enjoying redecorating…enjoying my babies…enjoying my new work contract…

I will write about work eventually, but right now I feel so alive…so grateful to be here this morning again for a new day…

I am happy and blessed and I know foremost acknowledgement goes to GOD Almighty! I am in tune and in line and it feels amazing!

Forget about tomorrow and even yesterday, just focus on today…

Here are a few bible verses that have been so helpful lately! The bible is such an amazing book…

“I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten– the great locust and the young locust, the other locusts and the locust swarm.” Joel 2:25

“So do not throw away your confidence; it will be richly rewarded. You need to persevere so that when you have done the will of God, you will receive what he has promised.” Hebrews 10:35-36

May God be with you all, today and always πŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ•Š

When the time comes…

There is nothing you can do about “timing”…

By now, I am a firm believer in “there is time for everything under the sun, moon and stars”…

Every season in our lives, comes and goes as it is supposed to….it is how we deal with the season that truly matters.

I am reflecting everyday, looking at my very own self in the mirror and seeing all my shades…

I stood up for myself in the most unbelievable way on Monday, I mean even to my own self this was a revelation! Completely shocking!

Not in the normal way that I would stand up for myself. In the past it would have been wholeheartedly, with emotions all over the place… But this time it was more realistically…with my head and then my heart was at peace!

I see a pattern, my strength growing in abundance. I am actually happier, because I deserve to be just that….happy, with myself and in my very own skin…

It is a great feeling…I don’t have to be complacent, I have to put my beautiful soul first. I must indeed find solace in my growing strength, letting my beauty shine through without any painful effort…

My time is here, time for me to be exactly who God intended. Time and place for my lifeπŸ•Š

My God, my saving grace, my comfort…

My all…My sense of reason…my complete understanding of what I must do and how I must stand…

Even as mere human, I must stand tall even when I am to stand small…

The road to my strength, to my salvation has been tough and rough on most parts…but I remain silently positive…

I will never forsake thee, I will scream and shout until the day that I die…that my God is my only salvation…

My peace of mind, my father, my mother…my complete contentment.

The devil may set a trap for me often, and blindly I fall deep…but my salvation, always restores my soul…

I shall never be without the true and pure Love of my God. My saving grace, my comforter, my salvation, my shoulder to cry on, my peace…oh how my love runs deep, so deep for my GodπŸ•Š

I am finally free, able to stand tall regardless, and say no….I deserve more than you, mere human can give me. You can not sustain me, you can not comfort or save me…because my God is my only true and pure salvation. Glory be to my God alwaysπŸ•ŠπŸ•ŠπŸ•Š

International Women’s Day 2017…

To be a strong, beautiful, loving woman at this time makes me grin with the biggest of smiles…

My heart smiles the most because I am a proud mama…My babies turned me into a real woman…

A woman who carries and shows her heart without much anticipation…though, often life experiences teach me valuable lessons all the time…

I am blessed to be alive today, to be an example, strength and guidance for my beautiful children…

I have not just words to prove my worth, I have living proof (praise to GOD Almighty) always and forever…

My pain and disappoinents have brought me this far, I don’t carry the past. I let go and forgave  so much and that alone has catapulted me beyond my wildest…

My babies complete my world, I am a woman today and always simply because of them…my love runs deeper than mere words!

I am not thriving on earthly possessions or even achieving material or status…I am thriving as a woman, because I completely understand what it means to be a real woman, strong, loving, content and devoted! 

Happy International Women’s Day to real Women πŸ˜šπŸ•ŠπŸŒΉπŸ’πŸŒΊπŸŒ»πŸŒΌπŸŒ·

For what I do for you, I also do for myself!

An inspiring few weeks for me personally, complete emancipation of my very being…

As a growing woman, I exude what I must at this present time.

Always been a woman’s woman. To love and to encourage you is what I always want to do.

I don’t function on negativity, my stance is to potray love and devotion to you. As my sister, my friend…my stranger. Even more so when I don’t actually know you.

I just want to be there for you, to love you, to encourage you, to set you up…because whatever I am giving to you, I am ultimately giving myself.

I don’t compete with you, I don’t envy you or ever wish bad for you. I just want you to grow and be as happy as intended. 

Your joy is my joy, hold your head right up high and see that you are beautiful and capable of living your own purpose. 

Finding you, helps me to find me too. As for trying times, don’t fret on the miniscule things…focus on elevating each other. In time you will see that this is the true definition of your own soul! 

Let Love be the winner in all that you see, in all that you do and go through. AmenπŸ•Š

Never claim…

Never claim anybody!!! My new lesson…

Seriously! We don’t own people, people come in and out of our lives, for reasons known and unknown…

You must be steadfast with who you are, you shouldn’t have to compromise or expect the other person to…

In relation to friendships and relationships..you can’t really procrastinate your ownership of another individual…(especially on social media) what if it ends? (delete and move onπŸ€”) You can love them wholly, but that doesn’t guarantee “for life”…

I learned something so fundamental, that without any grudge or malice…I don’t belong around negativity!

So by choice, I don’t own you and you don’t own me either. 

Peace and Love ❀

Single and a mother…what comes next?

You find your self all alone, starting all over again…but this time you have a child! 

How do you process? and how do you proceed? No self help book can help you with this one!

You never imagined a marriage failing, in fact you never weighed any other options…you never saw your future! 

In your world, the man came…the knot got tied and a baby delivered…but you could have never predicted, that you will be left with the baggage….all for you to carry? All alone! 

You find yourself single and a mother…no manual, no help! Going to go mad by now? Or will this experience only make you stronger? 

All the answers you may require, comes from you! No one can help you with this one…

The strength and motivation you need, all derives from your very being…always remember that indeed, the dynamics have changed….

But what you must try to do next….is to be better than you ever were…and more than before, as now you have a baby in tow! 

“Single mother, teach your son how to be strong! Teach your daughter how to love herself! You reap what you sow” Becky Bincan 

Peace be upon your soul!

Why so weak? Why can’t you just walk away?

You blame yourself for all the wrongs of others…why? And why my darling?

Even if yours suddenly overshadows his, and just because you decided to have a melt down…your melt down was imminent…had it coming!

You don’t seem emotionally strong…matters of the heart completely weaken you….but you are stronger than you give yourself credit for…

Don’t fret my darling, its all the pain you must endure…the pain that lifts you to peace and tranquility…

The peace of mind, knowing that you are only human. And he is only human also…what shall come of it, you cannot possibly know right now…

But for now, peace be unto you!